At church Sunday, I felt impressed to visit the grave of one of my good friends, Cole Benson. I hadn't been to the cemetery since he passed away 2 years ago, so his headstone was a little hard to find. When I finally found it, it was really inspiring and comforting. I've been making a effort lately to rededicate my will to the Lord. On his headstone is inscribed one of his last journal entries before passing away. It reads:
“If I will align my will with the Father, I know that no matter what happens on this earth, I will be blessed eternally for keeping the commandments and living the Gospel to God’s standards and not the world’s…” –Cole Benson, March 3, 2009.
I read those words and they really touched me. They spoke to me the kind of faith and confidence I need to have right now in what I am doing and who I am becoming. I too know that the path I want to be on will bless me eternally. I hope I can learn to live with the faith of my dear friend Cole.
This is a poem I wrote for Cole's family at his funeral. He was a great example to us all.
Our Friend Cole
Our friend Cole, a gentle soul,
Kind and caring too.
Pen may write, but fail to tell
What we’ve learned from you.
Confident, humorous,
A peacemaker to the core;
A true friend to all around,
You were that and more.
At motor biking, snow machining,
Work, and basketball
You were strong and always ready
To outdo us all.
Hardworking, true, and full of faith
An example you have set
Of humble, true discipleship
With every standard met.
Your choice spirit has touched our souls
And with faith we say,
“The Lord is pleased with you, our friend.
We’ll meet again someday.”
Jack Shirley